Does Size Matter?

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By Veronica

Absolutely!

Veronica

Two martini honest answer. Please. Does size matter?

Sincerely,

4 Inches

Dear 4,

Yes. Yes, size matters. Sorry sweetie, but it does. Anyone that has told you otherwise was being polite.

Remember the Sex and the City episode "Take Me Out to the Ballgame" where Samantha Jones is dating small penised James:

James's small penis means that Samantha is not orgasming during intercourse. She holds a hotdog for her girlfriends: "I don't think you guys understand the seriousness of my situation. How would you guys like to make love to this every night?"

So here's some advice for your situation.

First off, don't date size queens.

Secondly, you have lips, and a tongue, and 10 fingers. You have a brain and an imagination. Learn how to use them. There is no reason at all for you not to be an excellent lover. You just have to work a little harder at it, that's all. Watch porn, see those moves. Pay attention to her reactions. Communicate with your partners.

And last but not least, don't be afraid to supplement with toys.

There are much worse lovers out there than guys that are not well endowed. Guys who are selfish, don't communicate, are unimaginiative, aren't open minded, or are prudish make much worse lovers than a guy that's missing a couple inches. Don't sweat this, it's not the end of the world. GET GOOD.

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Isabella Snow 4 years ago

Poor man!! On the plus side, lots of women prefer oral sex to regular sex, so if he practices, he can still be perfect in bed. :))

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Veronica Hub Author 4 years ago

Excellent point Isabella! There ya go, 4! Give it & get it!

And don't forget: practice makes perfect;)

Goodwitch 4 years ago

Thank goodness! Finally - an honest answer! YOU RULE!

MaryKay 4 years ago

I can't date a guy with anything less than 6 inches. But that's me.

Dino 4 years ago

Way to tell it like it is, Veronica!!!

Signed,

8 " of love

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ShanX 4 years ago

heck yeah it does lol

Willy 3 years ago

Yes size makes a big difference in the bed. But what most men that wish they were porn star endowed do realize is that being large has issues too.

By most research men's erections are between 5" - 7". Most of the women that I know would consider a 7" penis to be large and 8" to be very large. Guys tend to think that 10" to 12" would be great. But guys, men that are this large are very rare. Most women, even if they are very sexually active would never experience a man this large. The studies out there suggest that the size distribution looks something like this....

5.5" - 6.5" 50% of men1 in 10 men => 7"1 in 100 men => 8"1 in 1000 men => 9"1 in 10,000 men => 10" For you guys that still insist that at 6" you are too small and all the girls want 10" penises consider this. At 6" you have never been refused sex for being too big, yes too big. Very well endowed men frequently face this issue. I am one of these guys. I am very large at 9 - 7/8". While I was dating in college I would frequently have women change there minds as we were about to have intercourse. They would say they always liked the fantasy idea of having sex with a huge penis, but as they now had the opportunity they were scared and could not do it. I had this reaction from about 1/3 of the women I dated in college. You would also find that your partners would have a harder time in giving you oral sex. And then the guy fantasy of having a huge erection and being able to penetrate the full length into his partner. Not happening. When having vaginal intercourse with a women I have never been able to penetrate more than half my length into a partner, anything more I would be severely hurting my partner. I have been very fortunate that over the years I have had partners that enjoy anal sex and with lots of lube and going very slow I can have full penetration. My wife and I have anal sex on a regular basis, she really get off on me being completely in her, but it tends to take a very slow / long process to bring us both to orgasm. So as others have said it’s not the size that matter it what you do with it. Being very large I have had to be very careful lover. Listening to my partners on what they like and what they don't. I have to always be careful to not to hurt my partner. Injuring your partner during intercourse does not help her achieve climax. And she will be less likely to ask for another encounter with you in bed.So guys, average, small, and large, learn to use what you have, and learn to use it well. Remember, the greatest pleasure you can receive from sex is providing your partner with their greatest orgasm. If you think it is just about you getting off you might as well just stay at home and masturbate.

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Veronica Hub Author 3 years ago

Thanks for the comment elongated exactly the points i made (no pun intended). You should write your own hub~! If you do, come back and link it here so we can all enjoy it.

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